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It's not your fault if your relationship fails, that's a two way street. But it is your fault if you "allow" it to fail and not place the Lord in the midst of your troubles. If your leaning on the Lord "after" the storm has passed and needing the strength to move forward, it's to late by that time. Why would you summon the Lord "after" the relationship has dissolved? That's backwards. If the Lord wasn't worthy enough for you to call on him during the relationship, you aren't worthy enough to call on him afterward the relationship is over. His purpose becomes pointless. That was just time in your life wasted you'll never retrieve back.