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Voiceless Thoughts

  Common sense proceeds you if you think you know what it takes to sustain a relationship and you've never been married. Your voice falls on deaf ears if your a middle aged adult currently not in a relationship. How do you get this far in life and love continues to avoid you? With age comes wisdom and a better understanding on life correct? Perhaps that doesn't apply to the African American population that currently sits at 31% in marriages in the US. They forgot to read the memo on how to sustain a healthy relationship?

Hurting Thoughts

  Learn and condition yourself to love without allowing hatred to enter your heart. Love is an extremely difficult thing to maintain once you allow your heart to be influenced. Love isn't perfect, nor is the person you fell in love with. If infidelity is the premise for terminating a relationship, your heart is in the wrong place. Love is suppose to hurt because it generates strength.

Cherished Thoughts

  Why is it so hard to forgive? Is it because of the pain that was inflicted on you? Please understand, in the heat of the moment, pain often time overrides forgiveness, that's normal. However, lack of forgiveness will only extend the pain, preventing you from healing. Through healing comes forgiveness, and with forgiveness comes strength. Remember this, forgiveness and healing run hand and hand together, it's no other way around it.

Common Thoughts

  A guilty person that has a distaste for you can portray themselves in a plethora of disguises, as they right under your nose in plain view. That person is someone you've known for a very long time that you currently remain in close relations with. Who is it? Just remember, they are in plain view, just open your eyes and remain silent.

Empty Thoughts

  Your life was pre scripted the moment you were born, only God knew the outcome. It's nothing you can do to change the past, it's nothing you can do to manipulate the future. Only God knows your destiny. However, if yesterday matters more to you than today, you have no future. Today is all you have in front of you, nothing more.

Loving Thoughts

  When was the last time you told yourself I love you? You have to love yourself before you can love someone else, it all starts with you.

Problematic Thoughts

  Sometimes we experience problems we wish never happened. But the truth of the matter is, problems do not go away by pretending they never existed.