James W. Inspirational Thoughts

  What do you think your value is in terms of relationships? That question centers around people like yourself that struggle to maintain a relationship for various reasons unknown. But what we do know, is that the truth is rarely ever revealed because the story is always being told by one party. And in case you haven't noticed, the entire puzzle is never put together after the relationship is dissolved. Open your eyes, the puzzle was pieced together right in front of your eyes but you were to blind to see it. People that continuously fail in relationships are the reason it fails, only your always hearing it from the failed recipient.

  You've heard many people over the years complain that life isn't fair. On the surface that may seem like a fair assessment, mainly because it's beyond our control in certain instances, or is it? Meaning, many of the horrible things we experience in life was in fact within our control. Most people won't admit it because they don't want to incriminate themselves in plain view for everyone to see. But if you dig deep enough beneath the surface the answers are revealed.

  Some of the problems we incur in life, aren't truly a problem. Just because you label it as a problem, doesn't mean it's a problem. It only becomes a problem when you make it a problem, because many of those issues could have either been avoided, or self inflicted. Have you ever noticed how many of those problems work themselves out? It's because it wasn't a problem in the beginning, you simply overreacted to a situation you lacked knowledge on handling.

  It's no such thing as a perfect parent, but you owe it to that child to be the best parent you can possibly be despite the obstacles life presents.

  Why do some people feel you have to share a common likeness? Some will even get offended if you disagree with them. In order to be socially accepted you have to agree despite your true feelings. Is this where we are now? You'd be better served removing that person from your life for the sake of peace.

  You only live once, why waste it sitting around waiting on something that will never happen? Your market value isn't what you thought it was, and that's the reason you're present position hasn't improved, and it won't improve. You've raised the bar so high that the reality of where your life is today and where you'll always be until the day you die.