Discarded Thoughts

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 Are you aware that it's a passive aggressive way of bullying? Many people "unconsciously" do it without even knowing it. For example, if you inform a person of something that displeases you, and they (blatantly) disregard your desires despite your displeasure, that is a classic form of passive aggressiveness at it's best. And whether you know it or not, they are basically telling you they do not respect you without even saying it. A person can also bully you through anger, unconsciously/consciously using it as a control mechanism in order to provoke you into conforming to their desires. Another form of bullying can be used through instilling fear into a person through manipulation, using them ONLY at their convenience and discard them later when they are no longer needed. 

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