Failing to do the right thing and knowing the truth, can often times work against you in the future. Once this occurs, do not be afraid to admit you made the wrong decision.
It doesn't hurt to improvise your way through life. But in doing so, it requires patience, prayer, understanding and humility as your foundation. Life itself can present a plethora of unexpected challenges from one day to the next. Refusing to use those fundementals as your platform through life, lowers your ceiling to sustaining peace and happiness.
If someone says your incorrect in your assessment of them, do not respond with anger. Ask yourself this, why would someone's assessment trigger such a reaction? Just because a person makes an assessment of you that's never been said, doesn't render them incorrect. It could simply mean they see something others didn't see. Or perhaps others didn't see the need to tell you and remained silent about it. It's a plethora of ways this can go. One person assessment of you does not necessarily define you, but it can also be an accurate assessment as well. Some people just have better insight than others, think about that. Often times it can be certain terminology people do not associate themselves with that triggers an angry reaction despite it's truth.
Once you've discovered you have outgrown a person, do not be ashamed to reveal it. Minimizing who you really just to fit in with someone you know maturation hasn't matured, will do nothing for you internally.
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