James W. Inspirational Thoughts

Its many things in life we have control over, and its many things we have zero control over. But the one thing in life we have absolutely no control over, many have tried to conquer, and that's "love". Its the one emotion that leaves us helpless, lost for words, and breaks us down to our lowest term. Its the one emotion that's not meant for us to control, although many have tried. Love doesn't judge, its unconditional, its caring, nurturing, kind, gentle, thoughtful, graceful, and it can't be controlled. Just look at it this way, if love could be controlled, nothing in life would be genuine.

You know what you see when you look in the mirror, because you know the mirror doesn't lie. You also know what's afforded to you based on what that image projects. If you don't believe in the image you project, how can you expect someone else to believe in it? If you are unhappy with the image you project, do something about it, and do what's necessary to enhance that image. Otherwise, you'll have to live with those limitations, and accept the realization that you have very limited options to choose from.

Sometimes in life, its the little subtleties we take for granted, going unnoticed, until that subtlety is removed from your life, that you realize the importance of that subtlety. Its not the big things that carry the most weight in your life, that's way to easy. Its those small things you think don't matter, tricking yourself into thinking it carries no impact in your life. Those are the ones that were strategically placed into your life for a reason, not for you to blow off and taken for some coincidence.

If you give someone your time, don't feel obligated to do so, because you can only do what you're able to do, nothing more. If someone is nice enough to give you their time, don't make them feel obligated to so, as they can only give you what's available to you. Simply put, its a privilege for any individual to give up themselves for anyone, (not) an obligation.