How are you going to have a relationship if you do not know how to sustain one? Do you know what it takes to sustain a relationship? Do you even know what a true relationship looks like? Many relationships are doomed from the beginning based on those simple questions? Were you even taught how to have a relationship? Chances are you entered adulthood without a clue because you weren't taught, and if you weren't taught, failure soon follows. And now that your well into adulthood your unwilling to listen because you "think" you know what it takes, when in actuality you don't. Your parents/parent taught you nothing and that's being brutally honest. And if they did teach you, they taught you wrong as that has contributed to your failures.
Many opportunities we miss, often times are opportunities placed upon us by the Lord. Problem is, more times than not those opportunities only roll around once. Lesson learned, when an opportunity is handed to you on a silver platter, don't waste it by adopting the mindset you'll have more to come, because they won't.
You can feel the spirit of a home immediately upon your entrance, revealing everything you need to know about that person. If that home is filled with warmth and love you'll know it. This is why you must be careful who you invite in your home, because bad spirits are difficult to remove once you invite them inside. They can only bring harm to you upon invitation.
Sometimes in life people will blatantly say or do things to provoke and wake up bad spirits that lies deep down within you. Spirits you've chased away eons ago that you didn't know still existed. It's at that moment in time you must reach deep down your inner soul, recognizing someone is trying to inject poisonous venom into your bloodstream. And because you've been diligent in your quest to be obedient to God, obeying his wishes and silently walking away is the best solution. Responding to ignorance will only strengthen its' energy, and that is not your desire.
Nothing in life is impossible as long as you keep God involved. He will move mountains, things you didn't deem possible could happen. Far to often many will attempt to accomplish the impossible by either relying on resources, or by way of ones own self, it simply cannot be done. If you do not trust the most reliable source afforded to you, your life is pointless.
If you were bold enough to make an unpopular decision, why not make the right decision that's unpopular? Many decisions are easy to make based on popular support that doesn't generate negative feedback, those are easy. Why not make the choice you know God supports?
A negative minded person has weak faith, yet they will tell you their faith is strong. You can't have it both ways. Have you ever been around a negative minded person? They'll take anything positive and throw a negative spin on it, phrasing it as viewing life from all angles. Do not allow yourself to fall into that sinkhole, because if you do you'll struggle mightily climbing out of it.
The valuable lessons we learned in life are defined from the mistakes we made and our ability to listen. Through close observation, those that lack knowledge isn't derived from ones own inability to attain knowledge, it's for the lack of desire to attain knowledge that cripples many people.
The ceiling for some people in life are higher than others. For some, it's a matter of expectations one has set out for themselves. But despite the outcome, your life was already predetermined at birth and God knew it. It's nothing you could have done to change the trajectory of your life and what you became despite your life decisions, it was meant to be.