James W. Inspirational Thoughts

  The true love you once had was never lost, you simply gave up on it. And now that it's gone you've moved on, wondering if you can recapture that feeling you once had. You've spent many years playing private head games with yourself and you still came up with nothing. Your level of trust is at ground zero as you've mentally give up on ever having true companionship. But you know where the true problem is? The companionship you once desired was staring you directly in the face many moons ago, only you were to blind to see it because you were mentally defeated, so you gave up without even giving yourself a fair chance. Companionship is a great thing, and living a single life is simply not cool at all, nor is it attractive.

  If your available for a relationship, or looking to one day be involved in a marriage, ask yourself a few question? If you could give a reason to love you, what would it be? What do you bring to the table that would appeal someone to be involved with you? These are questions you need to ask yourself, with the understanding as to whether you are relationship material. Because many seem to "think" they are relationship ready, but in actuality they aren't. And if your middle aged and never been married, many of those questions answer themselves despite what you "think" you being to the table. (Your not what you think you are.)

  Why would you minimize a person for the sole purpose of elevating another person? Compliments should be taken at face value, nothing more, it's not a lifetime achievement award. Because in most instances, a compliment is a recipe for open criticism.

 Why would you allow a rich person to have great influence over you? Just because a person is rich doesn't make them any smarter than the average person minus financial security. Are you aware that the Lord speaks against being influenced by such people? Proverbs (18:23) speaks for itself. Many people lack respect for poor people.

  If you unknowingly hurt someone you should at the very least show empathy, informing them it was not your intentions. However, if you knowingly hurt someone, the same rules still apply, you should show empathy, with the understanding that the words you speak can cause irreparable damage internally. Such pain cause a plethora of health issues, including heart attacks, nervous breakdowns, and even cancer. The lesson to be learned is be careful with the words you speak.