Uncensored Thoughts

Have you ever had your feelings hurt to the point you ask yourself, "Why did this person do this to me"? Do you think they did it intentionally/unintentionally? Do you think its something you did to provoke them to inflict pain on you? Lets elaborate on provoke for a moment. Believe it or not, sometimes we (provoke) people to say or do things to us, not knowing, understanding, or recognizing what we said or did was wrong. Yes you can only be yourself, but you have to have the understanding that everybody is different, no two people are alike. Therefore you can't just say what you want to say, do what you want to do, and walk away blindly, with the assumption that zero repercussion will come from it. Simply put, you're not as innocent as you think you are in the midst of your pain and suffering in relationships. Not to condone wrong doing, but don't kid yourself and think you're the innocent victim of foul play. Because in the end, nobody is wiling to incriminate themselves and tell the honest truth about themselves, it just doesn't happen.