Open ended Thoughts

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Have you ever had someone try to give you healthy advice, but didn't know how to give healthy advice? For example, some people will give you advice (without) an option. That's not good advice, because life itself ALWAYS gives us an option. You can't help someone using close ended techniques, as if to say its this way or no way. Healthy advice is advice that has options, allowing that person to pick and choose the direction they want to go in. Advice without an option is like backing a person into a corner without an outlet, forcefully coercing them into your way of thinking, and that's not good.

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